What do u think of my cousin's actions, was she right ot wrong?

Sounds like your cousin is responsible in spite of her cirstances living with her dad and stepmom. I think the cousin should move on and not contact the weird family members. Perhaps tell the police what her dad said about her because that is serious and awful! How hurt she must feel about everything that has happened to her! I'm so glad that she is in school and is doing what she needs to do for herself. She does not need to have people in her life that tear her down mentally and physcially! I know it hurts, but she must move on and get away from this insanity and I hope she does not involve herself with them any more, but will totally focus on her life now!